After five years of bathing him, helping him move, and acting as his round-the-clock caregiver, I accidentally overheard my paralyzed husband laughing with a stranger. He casually called me his “free servant” and bragged that he wouldn’t leave me a cent.

When people hear the phrase five years, it sounds insignificant—like a brief passage, a few pages easily skimmed. But when those years aren’t marked by seasons or holidays, when they’re counted instead in fluorescent hospital halls, pill organizers, and the sharp, lingering smell of disinfectant that clings to your skin, time behaves differently. It thickens. It settles heavily in your lungs. It turns into a burden you haul forward instead of a space you inhabit.